For some people, there’s no substitute for having someone being physically with you when you go to sleep. Maybe they experienced some kind of trauma growing up, maybe it’s just that some people feel a bit lonely and want someone who makes them feel safe and comfortable there while they drift off. That’s why there’s particular sleep ASMR videos that make you feel like you have a male partner putting you to sleep. They usually whisper or talk in low voices, saying things that gradually relax you. It’s a whole sub category of sleep ASMR that’s quite popular. Here’s a few more of these vids below.